Losing ones voice can be a good thing

I have decided to go quiet. Yes, you got me right. I always thought that it is so much fun to communicate -- with your voice. Apparently it is not. The over and under tones of your voice can so aptly convey feelings of love, hate, joy, sorrow and everything in between. This was my understanding and it has failed me so often in my life that I am beginning to doubt myself these days. Instead, it is more fun to communicate through writing, and writing alone.
One word -- 'reasonable', has been the guiding light of my entire life. I thought you can reason and be reasoned and that it is an innate ability amongst all of us. I was wrong. It is not. My experience teaches me that the conviction of your feelings are often carried in your voice along with the words you chose to say whatever it is that you want to communicate and any attempt to be reasonable is actually considered very 'unreasonable' of you. I am guilty as charged.